Mark---
Thanks. "Why is God's Grace so hard for us to accept as Christians?" you asked. That is an
excellent question. These verses come to mind:
"Now it came to pass, as they went, that he entered into a certain village: and a certain woman named Martha received him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, which also sat at Jesus' feet, and heard his word. But Martha was cumbered about much serving, and came to him, and said, Lord, dost thou not care that my sister hath left me to serve alone? bid her therefore that she help me. And Jesus answered and said unto her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: but one thing is needful; and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her". (luke 10: 38-42)
Some people are so busy "serving the Lord" that they never sit at his feet. Their concept of what "pleases God" is one of constant "works". This can result in a church which has (5) meetings a week, prayer for the sake of prayer (what I mean is they pray because they think God is
pleased with that, rather than really being concerned about whom they pray for, and believing God loves to answer prayer. They are more concerned with "praying" than the people they are praying for). "Let's pray all night because God will really be pleased with that effort" might be a sentiment that would be used. "Let's stand for the entire worship service because God will be pleased with that" might also be used.
My girlfriend has a habit of making me a hot cup of coffee most mornings when we drive to work. She does it out of love, and doesn't "have to" to do it. She knows I love her, and out of her own love for me she does this small favor. I always tell her "Thanks!" (and I really mean it because I make terrible coffee)
But imagine if she gave me the cup of coffee in the morning, and then later said "I hope that coffee met with your approval, and you love me
more as a result. I have been trying to do more things that will please you lately. I really want you to love me more. Is there anything I might be able to do differently so that I don't
lose any of your love for me?"
Somehow, I just don't think that coffee would taste quite as good. And a lot of people "do things" for God out of that same kind of motivation. Instead of realizing that God
ALREADY loves them
totally, and did from the day they were Born-again, they think they can "do things" that will "earn" them
MORE of God's love. And believe me, I am pointing the finger back at me on this, as I have often fallen into that legalistic mode of thinking.
Martha talked only of her
own works. She even asked the Lord to tell Mary to come and help her. Sound familiar? Some Christians bemoan the fact that
other Christians "do far less, yet think they are going to enter the same glory as the hard-workers are"! And they say this because their whole vision and motivation is on what
they are
doing, rather than on what Jesus has
already done.
But Jesus said of Mary "
one thing is needful, and Mary has chosen that good part". Mary was sitting at Jesus' feet because she
WANTED to be there. She knew that Jesus
already loved her and she sat adoring him as a result. A heart like that means more to Jesus than all the "works" we could ever perform. I am not implying that "service" isn't important, and that all we do as Christians is "sit around all day". But the above story speaks a lot about what
MOTIVATES US. And that is what we really need to look at. Is it Grace? Or is it because we think we can "earn" something from God, or cause him to love us more, through our faithfulness and obedience? It's good to examine ourselves from time to time and ask if we are a Martha or a Mary?
Jesus doesn't say he loves Mary more than Martha. Not by any means. I think he loved them both equally. It's just that one of them, Martha, was concentrating so much on her
own works, that she was missing out "on that good thing" that Mary was experiencing. Jesus wasn't saying "Martha, Martha" out of anger. I think he was saying in a sense "Martha, Martha, can't you just accept the fact that I love you with all of my heart
already? Don't try to "earn" my love, just accept it as Mary has".
What we
believe motivates us--either in being "cumbered about much serving", with the result of being "careful and troubled about many things",
OR in "choosing that good thing that shall not be taken away from us". You hit the nail on the head Mark---"why is God's grace so hard for us to accept as Christians?"