Dear mfdcfrank,
Many of us had to process what to do with our experience in George Geftaky's Assemblies. Many of us have done our processing and have moved onto other things which is why this board has less of an attraction for many of us.
However, I would recommend two things:
1. Read the material on
http://www.geftakysassembly.com/. Many articles collected over the years.
2. Better than sharing on the board is probably one-on-one conversation (on phone or e-mail). The board is a tool but often gets off topic, and it is not always completely safe to share in a public venue. People have been known to be blasted for a side comment. Or you can pour out your heart and not get much of a response.
As for e-mail conversation, Mark Campbell, Tom Maddux, Steve and Margaret Irons, Joe Sperling are four that come to mind who have worked through their past and would probably be happy to have an ongoing conversation. You can find their e-mails in their profiles and find the person you best connect with.
I agree that the board is not what it was when the church was crumbling. But I'm not convinced that is a bad thing as a bulletin board may not always be the best tool for personal processing of the past. Sometimes one-on-one conversation with focused attention, safety and privacy is better.
-Dave