Margaret
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At that time George was giving itinerant ministry in various Plymouth Brethren gatherings in the Southern California area--San Fernando Valley, Glendale, and Vista. He never visited his home assemblies, Grace Bible Chapel in Fullerton and the Pomona gathering, and we never questioned why. We now know that George had a falling out with them when he tried to convince them that they should let him take charge. George always talked about his brethren as having "lost the heavenly vision" and so we never bothered to investigate, thinking that all these people were "carnal" for not receiving George's ministry. After all, "You can't put new wine in old wine sacks" and the P.B.'s (Plymouth Brethren) were now the "old wine sacks".
We did not know at the time but found out after we left through a teacher who had taught with Betty at Lowell, and through the elders at Grace Bible Chapel, that a woman who had been a neighbor of theirs in Whittier had confessed to having an affair with George. George was not working but was taking philosophy courses at USC. The brothers at Grace Bible Chapel did not put him under discipline, probably because it was a case of her word against his, and he would not admit to it. But they told him he had to get a job. What Betty told me was that George had a disagreement with the brothers at Grace Bible Chapel, and left in a huff. They did not attend church for 2 years. Betty was very upset by this, but George would not listen to her. Betty said that the only way she could communicate her disapproval was to drink coffee, something George did not want her to do. As I look back on this, I think that George was very controlling toward Betty, and possibly abusive. Eventually they did go back to Grace Bible Chapel, and then left again, as I have mentioned, because George was not allowed to be an elder.
Marguerite Harrison also left Westmoreland to throw in her lot with George. Through her George gained an introduction to groups all across the country and in Europe which had been influenced by Brother Harrison and Sparks’ ministry. To name a few, she took him to home gatherings at the Hoffman’s in Garden Grove, the Berkhoff’s in Chatsworth, the Boyer’s in Tuscola, and to Honor Oak church plants in France, Germany, Holland and Austria.
It is noteworthy that, with the exception of Tuscola, none of these gatherings stuck with George very long. I personally think the reason is that although George used ideas and language similar to Sparks, these mature people knew there was something amiss. But they listened respectfully long enough to enhance his credibility in our eyes. By the time they dropped off, one by one, George already had things rolling here in southern California.
George was invited to speak on a weekly basis at the home meetings at the Maddux’s, the Hoffman’s and the Berkhoff’s. Through Tim’s contacts among high school students he began a Saturday morning Bible study in his home. He was invited to speak weekly at the House of Christian Love and the House of the Lord’s Grace, communes begun by Calvary Chapel. In 1970 he held three weekend seminars in his home. In February of 1971 Sunday meetings began in the recreation building in Hillcrest Park with about 35 people. My mother had by this time left Westmoreland to follow George. At this point, there were no leading brothers, no brothers houses, no rules, really. It was all very informal and free. George was still selling insurance, and Betty was teaching at Lowell High School.
George took a trip in 1971. While he was gone Steve and I went out to Betty. I don’t remember the exact circumstances, but for some reason she was with us on a trip to Barnsdall Park in L. A. She seemed depressed, and she said to us, “I just don’t see where I fit into what is happening.” I think that Betty needed to believe that George was a Jacob whom God could use even though he was a worm. From what developed later, it seems that using her Bob Jones background, Betty created a place for herself as the one who could make sure the group was holy, while George was the charismatic one who brought it together, flawed though he was. In 1983 Scott Peck wrote a book called People of the Lie, about the distinction between evil people and the mentally ill. Betty had this book, and admitted to me that she identified with one of the cases Peck describes, a woman whose husband was an alcoholic. Her evil was her moral superiority over her husband, whom she hated.
It is very difficult for me to try to see these beginnings through the lens, “Did God raise up this ministry?” I think that God spoke to us through the many Scriptures that were read, through the many doctrinal hymns we sang, and He fed us through the Lord’s Supper, because we were the sheep of His pasture, not because this was a special work of God. In so doing, He preserved us and we were even able to grow in grace, to some extent.
At this point Steve wants to add something. [Steve writing] I Tim 3:2 tells us that the first qualification of an elder is to “be above reproach”. George had already disqualified himself from any kind of public office with his sad history among the P.Bs. The elders at Grace Bible Chapel and Westmoreland stood against him and did not give him a public office. The first and last God-ordained bulwark against sin in the church is the government of the local church, the elders. And when that fails, there is no recourse to a higher authority, at least here on earth. Now that we all know better, how sad it would be to allow George to continue to have a public ministry when so many elders in the past, and now more recently in Fullerton have made it crystal clear (with more than sufficient cause) that George has brought scandal to the church, is not above reproach, and that he is no longer welcome to preach in their assembly. The other assemblies need to take heed.
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